My name is Cade Resnick and I have been where you are. It is not a great place to be, yet I have walked the path you are traveling.
I am a dad, an ex-husband, and a child of divorced parents. Perhaps the trifecta of experience (laughter is the best medicine). I am also a counselor who works with families and people to rebuild their lives from severe mental situations. In that I am no stranger to the hard work that a trauma such as divorce brings on.
My experience as a counselor did not help me be blinded as to who I was married to (narcissism) yet what it did to for me is to understand that we can all benefit from more than just counseling, sometimes we need a divorce guide to get us through it all. When it was time for me to approach my divorce, I was not sure what the path would look like. I was successful at what I was doing, a good partner to my now ex-wife, and I spent time with my kids who brought a smile to my face each day. I was not ready for what I would uncover. I was not prepared to see the life going on behind my back and thus the trauma that ensued took me through many emotions. The journey takes a long time to heal mentally and emotionally.
I share this with you because from my experience in the process, I learned a significant amount of what it takes to maneuver through the darkness that is divorce. Make no mistake, the process is long, it is emotional, and it deserves to be considered a rebirth.
Having come through the dense forest of divorce, I now choose to restructure my focus and to help others. The whole process that is divorce deserves an experienced counselor, with the experience of what you are going through in your mind and heart.
Going through this process I have found “me” once again. I have uncovered areas of life that I truly enjoy, I have found my way into new and exciting adventures, and I have fostered many great friendships. I have learned that there is no shame in being able to say “why me”, or to question yourself in order to grow from the experience. I came to my divorce because of the actions of someone else, yet it takes two people in a marriage, so instead of saying “she did it”, I worked through what she did and accepted the role in which I could have been better. I then spent my time working through the changes into the person I wanted to become.
My journey has made me more empathetic toward others, more vulnerable, less ashamed of what I have had to deal with, and at peace with who I am now. My passion for life never changed, it just needed a new path, a new story – with new chapters and new experiences for me. I believe your story will help you navigate through the forest
I came out of my divorce fog understanding that Divorce is not always the problem, it can be the solution to a problem.
We promise to be there for you every step of your journey. Our goal is to help you grow from your struggles, heal from your pain, and move forward to where you want to be in your life.
There are difference phases in the divorce process. Each of these is different. You are not alone in going through a very emotional time, and that is where I come in to help you. In the role as your coach, I am here to listen to what is going on, hear what you are saying, share in some of your pain, and be a guide to help you through the darker times. There are many ways to feel supported that are healthy, and that is where I come in as your coach.
Having someone help guide you toward the clarity within each stage is incredibly valuable. Here are some reasons you might want to consider reaching out to a Divorce Coach:
You don't know what you don't know! This is one of the hardest areas within the divorce process to truly understand. There is so much nuance that is going to be sorted through, and in all of that I will be your guide. I have helped many others walk the delicate path of the Divorce document, Parent Plan and Financial conversions that are needed during this time. Lawyers do what they do, which is to help you to achieve a divorce. Where I come in is that I help you prepare for your future, the future of your family and the sanity you will need down the road. Experience has shown me time and again that the work of your attorney is to help you to achieve a divorce and their formulas are setup to make this process work. The legal process of today may not help you for the future, and that is where my experience in preparing you for the future, before
Divorce is a time of change in your life. Regardless of how the divorce began, your life is moving in a different direction and you will find yourself in need of help. Friends are there for you and will give you the guidance they are able to, yet they have a different role in your life, that of friends. The role of a Divorce Coach is more
Divorce is a time of change in your life. Regardless of how the divorce began, your life is moving in a different direction and you will find yourself in need of help. Friends are there for you and will give you the guidance they are able to, yet they have a different role in your life, that of friends. The role of a Divorce Coach is more than just advise, it is to be your guide through all of the ups and downs that you are going to find yourself in and out of.
Divorce is really three stages and each of these stages has many facets. A divorce coach is there with you through each of these stages as emotional and motivational support.
Going through divorce is a challenge, and the challenge arrives with many pieces laying on the table. You may feel alone in each of these parts, and in many ways you may feel you are a broken puzzle. The role of a divorce coach has many avenues and one of those is the planning phase of what to do. As a separate part of the Divorce proces
Going through divorce is a challenge, and the challenge arrives with many pieces laying on the table. You may feel alone in each of these parts, and in many ways you may feel you are a broken puzzle. The role of a divorce coach has many avenues and one of those is the planning phase of what to do. As a separate part of the Divorce process, you may prefer just to have me as an assist with your divorce itself. Going through the paperwork together, helping you with all of the documents and making sure that all of the necessary paperwork is taken care of. Your lawyer is there to help you with the legal aspects, yet many make mistakes that may cost you in the long run. You may not know it today, yet many a story starts with - "I did not know". Let me be there to assist you in your legal process, not as your lawyer, as your Divorce Guide.
The parenting plan is a document that will be in your hands until your children leave the home. The law focuses on formulas that guide you and your lawyer to a parenting plan for today. Where I come in to help you is in the minor details of how the parenting plan operates today and in the future. I have helped mentor people to sort throug
The parenting plan is a document that will be in your hands until your children leave the home. The law focuses on formulas that guide you and your lawyer to a parenting plan for today. Where I come in to help you is in the minor details of how the parenting plan operates today and in the future. I have helped mentor people to sort through what will be a more detailed future plan. Throughout the divorce you are going to ask yourself, how best to help your children. The Parenting Plan is more than just a simple document - it is the contract you need to help you maneuver the rest of your Childs home-life with you. Don't take this area lightly - there are many aspects of this document you can have control over - My role with you here is to be your guide to a healthier future with appropriate boundaries for you and your children.